Thursday, November 19, 2009

Relationship Coaching in the Comfort of your Home

Relationship Coaching in the Comfort of your Home

Talk with a counselor in comfort from home. Online counseling is easier and more convenient than seeing a therapist in person. You can keep your privacy and choose to remain anonymous. Nobody else needs to know. Save time and money, start feeling better. Work out what to do next in your life. Online Counseling lets you choose from email, instant message chat, phone or webcam sessions with an experienced therapist. These sessions happen over the internet in the comfort of your own home or office by phone or Skype. You discuss anything that is important including finding direction or motivation, feeling happier and what to do about specific problems related to your relationships, thoughts or experiences. You can access confidential online counseling from anywhere in the world. For more information on fees or to make a appointment contact us @ tantric1@live.com

Your privacy is important.

Online counseling lets you speak to a therapist from the comfort of your home or office, or anywhere in the world that your business takes you. Phone or webcam session (60 minute sessions) You can choose either webcam or voice only. At the first appointment you can discuss your expectations and how you came to be seeking counseling or therapy. Instant chat (60 minute sessions) Text based counseling. This is a good choice if you can type and prefer not to use the phone or webcam service. The Skype application will provide you with a text record of the session. I prefer the phone or Skype. Email Exchange Send an email of up to 1000 words. You will receive written reflections and questions to assist you. The main benefit of email counseling is that you decide when and how often you write.

About Dennis

working as a relationship counselor and Tantric Coach for 16 years and has worked extensively with Tantric Sex Coaching, Blogging, Radio Show, working with men, woman, straight or gay wishing to explore or celebrate bodies. Tantra literally means a "tool for expansion." Outlining for spiritual transformation. Learning highly orgasmic techniques for reaching new heights of sexual arousal & intimacy. Dennis is considered a guru in relationship shifting that breaks traditional notions of what a couple should be. Men, Women that have denied their true sexuality in order to follow societal norm of the traditional marriage scenario are increasingly finding other options to “coming out”, families suffer collateral damage of lives that will forever be changed. Is there anyway to know my husband is gay? Support for the other man, gay husbands, straight spouse & wives of gay men. “Coming Out,” is not an event. It's a lifelong process of overcoming learned shame and increasing self-acceptance. I advocate that all gay men must strive to come out - fully. No one can truly be happy and thrive in the shame and secrecy of being in the closet - fully or partially. Dennis Schleicher Best-Selling Author "Forbidden Love with a Married Man." and has been a support group counselor working with all kinds of Coming Out.
Developing a Lasting Gay Relationship

Tantric Kissing, Sexual Energy

Developing a healthy Gay Relationship

Erotic Foreplay and Massage

Is He Gay? Straight, or Bisexual? What are You?

Multiple Orgasms

Sex to a Deeper Level, Peaking Together

Dennis’s approach has helped many and can help you to achieve the ultimate pleasures in your life. He has been called the ultimate Tantric Sex coach that will become your must-read for every man, woman, straight, or gay wishing to explore, confirm or celebrate our bodies. Dennis uses collaborative & narrative Therapy - practices influenced by the work many Doctors. He takes an interviewing approach instead of ‘advice-giving’. This model of therapy is gentle and respectful but has powerful results and to the point!!!

What Can Gay, Lesbian Bisexual & Transgender Counseling Do for You?

Do you need some support? Or are you wondering if you might be gay, lesbian or bisexual? Talk online and keep your privacy secure.

It’s confidential and easy. Our Therapy takes a respectful approach to:

Questions about how or if to tell others about your sexuality

Could you come out to your wife or loved ones.

All kinds of relationship issues

Feeling better after a relationship ends - how to move on.

Bullying and harassment at work, or elsewhere

Loneliness, how to find or make friends

Concerns about internet use

Sex related problems, Tantric coaching

Wanting to feel happier with life and your relationship with your self.

Dennis has many years experience assisting other gay men, lesbians, bisexual people and others dealing with sexuality. Or if Dennis is not the one for you his years of working in coaching he can help you find the Therapists for you.

Be Safe-

Dennis Schleicher Best Selling Author of; Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries & Support Group Counselor

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

Tickling His Pickle Sex Secrets from Expert Advice

Tickling His Pickle Sex Secrets from Expert Advice
by Dennis Schleicher
Learning highly orgasmic techniques and touches that are sure to rev up your intimacy will spark lost or new passion.
Meeting His Penis
Just like vaginas, dicks-c00ks-penises or what ever you want to call it will come is all sizes shapes, colors and variations. Some are small, big, or will surprise you by how they become when they grow with some TLC.
In the USA the average penis will come in at 2 to 3 inches in size, but with some more TLC this could grow 5 to 9 inches. (Don’t judge a book by its cover)
Other Areas of His Pickle to Explore
Foreskin: If he’s uncircumcised, carefully pull his foreskin to expose the head and find what kind of sensation feels best.
Frenulum: This is found on the underside of his penis, at the head. Find the sensation if any that’s experienced.
Perineum: This is the area between the anus and the testicles. (If your heterosexual or gay this is a highly arousal spot to find much pleasure.)
Anus: Again, I don’t care if your straight or gay the anus has many nerve endings. Find your partners sensitive spot. We all have one. (In the gay world much time is spent on finding out who is the ‘top’ or ‘bottom,’ well, I’m considered a 100% top and I still find great sensitivity & pleasure when rubbed during lovemaking.)
Asking what your partner wants is key. The women & men I work with can be reluctant to ask and tell there partners the truth when it comes to sex and hide behind their emotions.

Talk, Tell, & Trust is key…

Post Your Thoughts & Feelings?
Be Safe
-Dennis Schleicher
Author & Radio Host
Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries
This is a FUN new book I just found: "Tickle His Pickle Your Hands-On Guid to Penis Pleasing by Dr. Dadie Allison"

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Saturday, June 20, 2009

Sex & the Language of Clothes

Sex & the Language of Clothes

The clothes you wear can say a lot about your emotional state, confidence, feelings, and much more. We all use clothes to express many aspects of our personalities, to create a certain persona with which we try to impress others.

Researchers show we often wear more revealing clothes when we are feeling confident about your own sexuality.

How do you feel???
Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Friday, March 6, 2009

Developing a Lasting Gay Relationship

Developing a Lasting Gay Relationship
by Dennis Schleicher
Like all relationships that list over a long period, gay partnerships change and evolve as the years pass, but the change can occur over time just might happen so gradual both partners may not realize they are happening, and misunderstandings can sometimes arise. As the gay society has many deep issues dealing with self-esteem and self-worth, accompanied by years of societal conditioning that lends itself to manifest externally through self-worth.
Partners do not always pass from one stage of development of their relationship to the next at the same time, and so changes can be misinterpreted as a loss of interest. If, for instance, one partner is still in the passionate ‘honeymoon’ period of the relationship, craving sex at all times of day and night, while his partner has moved on to the less frantic second period, of their relationship development. Where the relationship emphasis is placed on home making along with developing a family, then there may be a mistaken perception that the relationship has run its course.
Gay relationships can extend over many decades, or they may last only one night. Whether long or short term, they should be treated with respect, and that participates should mean not only to pleasure each other's bodies, but to enhance each other's mind, and spirits. When you share something of yourself with another person, it should enrich you both, and when you offer your bodies to each other, it should involve more than just the ambition to achieve an orgasm.
It would be unrealistic to expect every sexual encounter to be a transcendental, life-changing experience. Sometimes there is no empathy, no concentration, no connection, no common ground between you and your partner, and you both except that you do not want to pursue your connection. However, when this occurs, you both should not treat yourselves with the lack of dignity that we deserve as human beings.

Please refer to my friends to book (Straight Acting) by Angelo Pezzote. Chapter 7, Solutions: how gay men can OPT OUT, Triumph and Thrive.

Post your comments and tell us what you think???

Be Safe-

Dennis Schleicher

Best-selling author of an explosive and controversial memoir; (Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-Mail Diaries)


Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Sunday, February 15, 2009

Tantric Kissing, Sexual Energy

Tantric Kissing, Sexual Energy

A kiss can be one of the most erotic exchanges between lovers. A kiss is often the first intimate physical contact with a new lover and some people believe they can tell a lot about a person's lovemaking skills by the way they kiss. Some people can reach orgasm through kissing alone.
Not wanting to be kissed by your partner is a signal of trouble in the relationship. Making kissing a daily ritual will embolden and ignite passion in your relationship and will keep the juices flowing.
Tantric Kissing
There are many different kinds of kisses: slow, quick, deep, wet, hard, soft, breathy, and then there is Tantric kissing. Kiss your lover at least twice a day and experiment with the different kinds of kisses below:
Eye brow kissing: Face your lover in Yab-Yum position, either woman on top or man on top, moisten each other's eyebrows and then lean into each other with brows touching. Feel the energy flow from one to the other uniting the two of you into a higher level of consciousness.
Synchronized kissing: Embrace in your favorite lovemaking position with lingam and yoni touching, but not inserted. Lips slightly open and touching as you both inhale together gently and exhale together, sharing and synchronizing the same breath.
Orgasmic kissing: In a loving face-to-face intercourse position with lingam inserted into yoni, lock lips, eye-gaze and one person inhales as the other person exhales, then the other exhales while the other inhales. Share the deep level of intimacy and feel your lover�s sexual breath enter your body and spirit.
More Kissing
Build sexual anticipation by kissing all around your lover's face with soft, baby kisses and use your hands to caress the face, hair or body.
Use your nose to nuzzle and your lips to caress to your lover.
Tease your lover by tracing the outline of his/her lips with the tip of your tongue.
Now put your heart and body into a slow kiss alternating the pressure from gentle to deep with mouth slightly open.
Take your lover's bottom lip between yours and suck gently. Make some sounds of pleasure.
Lick your lover's teeth with your tongue and increase your breathing to short rapid breaths.
Wrap your lips around your lover's tongue and suck passionately alternating your speed from slow to quick.

Explore the inside of your lover's mouth with your tongue by running it in small and large circles.
Dart your tongue in and out of your lover's mouth rapidly and then slowly as if you were having intercourse. Remember to use your entire body and make all those wonderful sounds of love.
Use hot or cold liquids to create new kissing sensibilities.

Forbidden Love with a Married Man: E-mail Diaries

Monday, February 2, 2009

Developing a Gay Relationship

Developing a healthy Relationship

Relationships can extend over many decades or they may only last one night. Unfortunately short-term is to norm as this is brought on partially due to the psychology of our subconscious mind.

When the spark of mutual passion does strike it can be wonderful. What started out as no-questions-asked sexual encounter can wind up transforming your life, giving you a loving companion who will share your highs and loves, your dreams and secrets. This can give your instant access to sexual satisfaction and allow you to explore the deeper levels of erotic experience. Having sex with someone you love is a qualitatively different experience from sex with a stranger whom you will probably never see again.

What do you see as an healthy gay relationship?
Ask Dennis Schleicher you questions???

Books that I recommend;

Straight Acting: Gay Men, Masculinity and Finding True Love

The Intimacy Dance: A Guide to Long-Term Success in Gay and Lesbian Relationships

Gay and Single...Forever?: 10 Things Every Gay Guy Looking for Love (and Not Finding It) Needs to Know

Monday, January 26, 2009

Fed up with the Fact that Men have a Shorter Shelf Life than Sushi?

Finding, let alone building, a strong relationship can still be challenging for gay men. The reason? Masculinity. All men, gay or straight, have been socialized to believe that to be overtly gay is unmanly and shameful. To compensate, many gay men adopt a macho, "straight acting" pose that blocks them from being their full selves, expressing their true feelings and forging real, lasting connections.
Because of this I am making “Straight Acting,” by Angelo Pezzote my Book-of-the-Month recommendation. Feel free to post your comments and reviews below;
In Straight Acting, Angelo Pezzote (AskAngelo.com) encourages readers to go beyond limiting ideas of how "real" men should behave, and leave behind out-dated ways of being that create stumbling blocks to deeper intimacy. Drawing on his years of experience as a gay psychotherapist and advice columnist, he offers practical and thoughtful relationship strategies, with tips on subjects that include coming out, dating, how to avoid falling for a player, how to maintain a sizzling, satisfying sex life, navigating open relationships, and much more. Most of all, he delivers crucial insights on the importance of ditching the macho act and learning to be true to yourself. Whether you're single and sick of it, wanting to move closer to your partner, or wondering how to meet someone for the very first time, let Angelo show you how to get real and get him. Put yourself out there to get--and keep--the love you want.